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DYNASTY also known as the Prince of dancehall is a very talented artist originally from brooklyn, now residing in New Jersey. He is internationally known and still extremely humble. With the charm and appearance of a suave latino, he brings a Caribbean feel to the stage when he performs dancehall music. Our very own DYNASTY makes NY/NJ proud. We know him for having an amazing voice and a charismatic personality. It has been 3 years since our last interview chopping it up so I reached out to him for an update. Get to know the man behind the work. Check out the “Where are they now” write up by JDM featuring Dynasty below!

The Q&A to bring the fan base the 411! (Q =JDM A=DYNASTY) 

Q: What is your current project?

A: “My current project is my second mixtape ‘it’s about time Volume 2’. I’m also working on a new album for 2014.”

Q: What are your goals at this time?

A: “My current goal is to become the first and the biggest latin dancehall artist from New York to make it big”

Q: Who is your favorite artist or talented person at this time?

A: “Konshens, he is a reggae artist” 

Q: What is your favorite winter fashion?

A: “Timbs and hoodies like the 90s”

Q: What was your best moment in 2013?

A: “My best moment in 2013 was being with my grandmother for my birthday”

Q: Where can everyone hear your music and or download it?

A: ” Www.soundcloud.com/princeofdancehall ”

Q: The ladies want to know what the prince of dancehall’s current relationship status is!

A: “Single” 

There you have it! A little update on our friend DYNASTY!

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REASONS I SAID NO PART ONE

Posted: January 27, 2013 by JDM aka JACKIE SPEAKS in DATING AND RELATIONSHIPS, DRAMA, FUNNY, JACKIESPEAKS247 BLOG, PEOPLE, SERIOUSLY

REASONS I SAID NO (DATING BLOG)

You guys know I love to blog! Well here is something that you can probably relate to!

DATING!

I will sum it up in a list dedicated to “REASONS WHY I SAID NO” and include short stories to back up each guy for your entertainment. This will be an ongoing blog every time a new situation arises..someone asked me to share my “list” so they can avoid it, imagine that!

“REASONS I SAID NO LIST” PART ONE:

(potential blind date guy) -> This JUST happened recently. Dear blind date guy, your friend tells me you are stopping by where we were hanging out. I could care less, however I spoke to you on the phone and you said “I am at the gym then headed to you guys”. You then text friend to tell me that you cannot come, and that you will make it up. I tell him, i don’t wanna meet you, that you said you were fat and I didn’t care if I met you anyway. He says you’re a GOOD GUY and that you are ATTRACTIVE and IN SHAPE and FUNNY and to go on a blind date with you that he will arrange “Give him a chance” he says.

  • NO: Why am I being tricked into a 1980’s version of dating?
  • NO: Something doesn’t feel right.
  • NO: I don’t do “BLIND DATES”
  • NO: I ask to see a picture of you (which I immediately hate): You are sitting down holding two bottles of alcohol wearing a white tee with a dumb look on your face that screams (I pop bottles with money I should be saving because I am broke, and implies you think a good time with me must involve alcohol)
  • NO: I don’t do “hood rich”
  • NO: I added your instagram to view more photos of you (maybe there is a decent one who am I to judge you right?) IT WASNT GOOD.
  • NO: I don’t do sunglasses at night, and neither should you unless you have a million dollar recording deal and it is at your video shoot for hit record.
  • NO: I see pics of your not one or two but maybe three kids, AND a pic of your PREGNANT girlfriend with 4th kid on the way with a caption stating this.
  • NO: I do not date guys with girlfriends, or wives.
  • NO: I do not date guys that LIE, or try to live double lives.
  • NO: I see more pics that make me think WHY WOULD I DATE THIS GUY.
  • NO NO AND ABSOLUTELY NO…. I didn’t give my info to anyone that can find me to set up this date, however they are on my IG. I will have to remove them immediately as this inspired my current list!

(The following applies to several people, no story needed)

  • NO: You never expressed your interest in me before, and are now suddenly infatuated to the point of no return. (Something is wrong here)  
  • NO: You are not over your ex girl and are in denial about it (so many of you forget I can prove this in many ways beginning with your publicizing it)
  • NO: Do not ask me out if you are seeing or fxcking your ex.
  • NO: You live far as shit and are not picking me up or offering a way for me to get to you (what is chivalry over?)
  • NO: You immediately want me to be your “wifey” and we barely know each other.-That is a cry for help.
  • NO: You dated a friend or family member of mine in past-YOU ARE ON MY NO FLY LIST JUST FOR THAT, no explanation needed.
  • NO: You still have “braids” and ginormous earrings, this is not a reggaeton video and this is not 1999. STOP
  • NO: You want to date me but want to be indoors all the time. (That isn’t dating)
  • NO: You make things inconvenient
  • NO: You are a stage five clinger
  • NO: You have the attention span of a fly
  • NO: You are publicly a thirst bucket on all social networks
  • NO: You are trying to exit the friend zone when you haven’t been given any incentive, play your position!
  • THERE WILL BE MORE NO’S….. keep an eye out for the yes list. lol

-JDM

SUBMIT YOUR “NO’S” AND I WILL POST THEM UP!

Cheers!

Posted: March 4, 2012 by JDM aka JACKIE SPEAKS in DATING AND RELATIONSHIPS, EVENTS, FRIENDS AND FAMILY, JACKIESPEAKS247 BLOG, NEW YORK, NIGHTLIFE

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CONGRATZ TO KHRISTINA, CHEERS TO A GREAT NIGHT! SEE YOU AT THE WEDDING!

WHATS OUR PROBLEM?

Posted: October 2, 2011 by JDM aka JACKIE SPEAKS in DATING AND RELATIONSHIPS, FRIENDS AND FAMILY, JACKIESPEAKS247 BLOG, LIFE

Ladies we often sit here and wonder about the why,what, and how of a bad ending with someone once its over. We have all at one time said “What’s his problem”!?

There is a popular saying “thinking about someone is like letting them live rent free in your head”..so if that’s the case it’s an eye opener!! How much time do we spend thinking of the “couldve wouldve shouldve’s”? it needs to stop!

I feel like my world was turned upside down this year. I went through a moment where everything felt so “perfect” then soon after everything felt so fake! My intuition lead me to a safer place where I was far from what couldve been much worse had I stuck around and settled for something much less than what I deserve. I am speaking from experience, we need to listen to our hearts and minds when it comes to love. A man will tell you everything they think you want to hear just to keep you, and sometimes they lie to you because whatever their truth is..they are scared to open up or they think its better to lie to protect our emotions when they have no idea that the truth is much easier to handle than a lie..they feel most of us will run the other way or completely go ape shit. I allowed someone into my heart after years of not accepting the “feelings” from the opposite gender on a serious long term level better yet YEARS without calling someone “boyfriend” if they didn’t deserve that title. I finally cracked this year and where did it get me?.. right back where I started! Wondering how people have become even more casual over the years and inconsiderate. There are plenty of men who are taken and or allegedly “happy” that hit on me constantly and it makes me think WOW WHAT AN ASSHOLE! They smile in their wife’s face then the first chance they get they are begging for attention from someone else, I keep on going and ignore the fuckery..it’s quite amusing how they are all so lame.

I am taking this time to write to my female audience because I want you to know that i overcame what many thought would torment me for a long time based on my utter shock and disbelief that yet again I was fooled and my initial “quiet” hiatus.  I took that broken heart and I looked ahead instead of back in time. I looked at the parts of my life that needed my attention and began repairing “me”. When we are in love we often neglect our priorities from health, work, and last but not least our social lives..we have all been there at least once. I have a few good friends that go MIA every time they are in a relationship but I understand why… the constant sacrifices to fit everyone into your calendar and keep everyone happy and the new hardships which may occur with your significant other that may “consume us” can easily feel like they are quick but last for weeks or maybe months before we realize when was the last time I had lunch with my friends? or went for a jog at my favorite place?…etc. Well let me tell you it feels great to be back!! Some people aren’t meant to be compatible although it may seem so..it’s called the “honeymoon stage” where everything is sweet right before the true colors show..don’t get me wrong there are happy couples out there but its about who you can stand to be with, because no one is perfect. Some of us have very low tolerance while others can “settle”, or even accept things that are outrageous, situations do vary. The point is, never let yourself forget who comes first..YOU.

-Jackie da Model

10/2/2011

Winter Cuffing Vs. Spring Flings

Posted: December 22, 2010 by JDM aka JACKIE SPEAKS in DATING AND RELATIONSHIPS, JACKIESPEAKS247 BLOG, LIFE, RANDOM
“Winter Cuffing Vs. Spring Flings”
By Jackie da Model
Jackiedamodel@gmail.com

So it has come to my attention that people tend to get together for the long term during the winter, and have casual flings in the spring time. I asked a few different people their opinions on this observation. We all know that the Winter is too cold to be outdoors and guys are too lazy to run around “having fun” in less than 20 degrees. Spring is a time where everyone is enjoying the weather and also activities outdoors and therefore have more of a chance to meet people consistently and date or decide if they want to just “chill”.

Weighing the pro’s and con’s of winter dating and spring dating have led me to the conclusion that making excuses for wanting to commit or run wild tend to come from those who are unsure of themselves. If you can’t trust yourself to behave in nice weather what makes you think you will in the cold?.  If you want to be with someone exclusively it doesn’t matter the weather, it matters who that person is and what they can offer you. Do they complete you?, Do they understand you?, Can they keep you satisfied? Those should be the ideal reasons, not “I want to stay in and cuddle because its cold so I need a cuddle buddy” or “Lets go speed dating in the spring”.

That’s the equivalent of the date you bring everywhere vs. the indoor boo. The date you bring everywhere may have won the respect and the honor of meeting friends and family. The indoor boo is most likely only good for sex or companionship. NUFF SAID! Get it together ladies and gents!!!

“Never make someone your priority when you are only their option”-anonymous quote

I have lived and learned and at this time I can honestly say that Love is unexpected, so let’s not search in the hot chocolate aisle at the bodega ….if your meant to be you will meet that person at the time best for both of you.

Stay Focused!!

@Jackiespeaks247

comments + feedback welcome!